Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him.
And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt.
Yes, he might be into you because you like the same bands and you act "mature for your age." (Has he ever told you that you have "an old soul?You would think that a 45-year-old man would want a relationship with a woman at least somewhat close in age.Wouldn’t they want someone who has a similar life experience, who has some maturity and a similar level of intellectual development? Many single women who are otherwise successful, beautiful, and talented find themselves passed over for younger women. They just want to be proposed to because it is a badge of honor. They are sick of dating and just want to find anyone and get this dating and marriage thing over with. Plus I’ve heard when faced with a good catch, some pretend to be on birth control and get pregnant accidentally to trap a man. The young ones are googly-eyed, easily impressed, fun, and free spirited.This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.Unlike a lot of younger women who are still exploring the dating world, older women have a much stronger idea of what they want.